9 things people in therapy want you to know

9 things people in therapy want you to know

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Therapy can be a loaded word.  Seeing a counsellor, going to counselling can be misjudged and this can stand in the way of healing.  I came across an article about this in the Huffington Post which.  The full article can be read here:  http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/what-to-know-about-therapy_us_56967f49e4b0ce496422c5f7?.

  1. You should never feel ashamed for being in therapy.

Everyone experiences bouts of stress or sadness. But when these feelings become too overwhelming, therapy can help a person take back control. There is absolutely no shame in seeking help.

Talking about your issues and problems out loud can be very helpful. It gives some perspective,” Gregory Dalack, chair of the department of psychiatry at the University of Michigan, previously told HuffPost.

“Talking with somebody who is trained to understand anxiety and depression can be even more helpful to help manage those symptoms, reframe some of the negative thoughts we tend to have and move us to a place [mentally] where we can cope with those difficulties,” he explained.

Even the people who seemingly “have it all together” sometimes need a little assistance. Public figures from Kerry Washington and Howie Mandel to Kate Middleton and Demi Lovato have all praised the benefits of going to therapy.

  1. There’s stilla huge stigma attached to it.

Not only is there sometimes a negative perception when it comes to therapy, the stereotype prevents people from even trying it in the first place. Research shows many people with depression don’t actively seek treatment to help manage their condition.

Let’s reiterate the first point: There’s absolutely nothing wrong with asking for help.

  1. When it comes to treatment, everybody’s different.

There’s no one-size-fits-all when it comes to treating matters of the mind. There are multiple methods of therapy, from cognitive behavioral therapy to group therapy. What works best for one person may be entirely different for someone else.

  1. There is no “right” amount of time to be in therapy.

The length of time in therapy depends on circumstances like a person’s level of stress, life events or mental illness diagnosis.

“While some forms of therapy are open-ended, others can be more focused on helping you manage the issues at hand over a relatively short period of time,” Dalack said.

  1. No, you don’t have to lay on a couch.

Many people have a preconceived idea about what a session is like based purely on pop culture, and that usually includes the idea that you absolutely must lay on a couch as a gray-haired man with glasses writes down your deepest secrets on a clipboard. More often than not, the portrayal is far from the truth.

  1. It sometimes takes a while to find the right therapist.

It doesn’t mean anything if a person has seen multiple mental health professionals. To employ a cliché, therapy is a lot like dating — it isn’t necessarily a good match on the first try. The point is that a person is getting the help they need.

  1. Not everyone in therapy has a mental health disorder.

Therapy can help people sort through any distressing issue, from work-related stress and family conflict to marriage troubles and academic pressures. There is no wrong reason for seeking a little support.

  1. Your therapist definitely doesn’t gossip.

At least not in the way you may think they do. Therapy is all about someone’s personal development. That may include discussions about people who have shaped their current reality, but it’s not a water-cooler gossip session by any stretch of the imagination.

  1. Being in therapy doesn’t necessarily lead to medication, but if it does, that’s totally okay. 

Not all people in therapy are on medication; not all people in therapy can manage their condition just by seeing a professional.

Like most medical treatments, the method depends on the symptoms and the circumstances. A therapist will work with a person in order to develop the right plan, which may or may not include medication.